So, you and your partner are trying to come up with new ways to spice up your sex life. A sensual massage sounds like a good idea. Doesn’t it? Many people reading this will think they need to go to an expensive massage parlor to experience one. You’d be highly mistaken if you thought that. Sensual massages can be given at home. In fact, it’s best when your partner gives you one. You’ll get the most out of it when you feel comfortable being aroused. You may not feel so comfortable being aroused around strangers.
How do you begin giving a sensual massage? You start by putting some oil on your hands. You should invest in a bottle of massage oil. Don’t worry if you can’t make it to the store. You can use lotion. If you don’t have either of the two, then don’t sweat it. You can give a massage without it. A massage with some sort of lubricant feels better than without it. But, sometimes you have to make due with what you have.
Where should you start when sensually massaging your partner? Start out with their feet and work your way up. Make sure they’re laying on their back when you begin. You should also set the tone with some music. Candles are a nice touch also. You want to make the atmosphere as relaxing as possible. You may even think about burning a stick of incense. You should do anything and everything to ensure that your partner is as calm as possible before and during the massage.
Work your way up from their feet. You can focus on their pleasure zones. It’s best to wait until you flip them over. This isn’t to say that you can’t give their ass a good rub down. You know your partner better than anyone else. If they’re not ready for a little satisfaction in between the legs, don’t push it. You can do it when their on their back. This is the most appropriate time to do it.
Your partner doesn’t expect you to be a professional. Don’t feel any sort of pressure to deliver in that regards. There’s no reason why you can’t watch a few YouTube videos and learn how to give a massage. There’s plenty to choose from. The most important thing is to be creative. Always seek out new places to touch. You’re going to want to pay close attention to how your partner reacts when touched in these new areas.
How sensual you are with your partner depends on them. You need to be able to read your partner. This is especially true for guys. Knowing how far you can take things is extremely important. You don’t want to seem too pushy when offering up a massage to your partner. Guys are always in the mood for sex. If you’re massaging your man, don’t be afraid about being too over the top. They’ll love the fact you’re trying to turn them on. Tease your man during a massage if you want to treat him later with sex. He’ll enjoy the build up of arousal before experiencing the ultimate satisfaction.